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By Sean M. Lyden

The What

Imagine...You meet someone at a chamber event. Great conversation. You exchange cards. You send a follow-up email. And then...nothing happens. They don’t respond. They don’t buy. So you move on.

A month later, you see them at another event. They’re friendly. They remember you. They fit your ICP (ideal customer profile), but they’re still not ready to buy.

So you mentally label them a dead lead.

Six months later, you find out they hired your competitor—for a service you offer—because, when they were finally ready, you weren’t on their radar anymore.

Sound familiar?

Here’s the problem. It’s not that you didn’t follow up. It’s not that you pushed them away. It’s the mental model you’re using to manage your relationships.

Most of us were taught to think about sales as a funnel. Wide at the top. Narrow at the bottom. Pour people in, filter them down, and hope enough come out the other end as customers.

Today, I’m going to show you a different model: The Sales Orbit—a framework for managing every relationship in your sales process so that no one falls through the cracks, trust compounds over time, and the right people move toward you naturally.

The Why

Before we get to the framework, let’s talk about why the orbit works better than the funnel.

Three reasons.

1. It takes the pressure off.

The funnel creates pressure on both sides of the conversation.

If your mental model says prospects must move through a linear sequence and convert at the bottom or get eliminated, then every interaction carries the weight of “Is this person going to buy or not?” You push. They resist. The whole dynamic turns adversarial.

The orbit flips that.

For example, when you meet new people at networking events, your only job is to get them into your orbit. That’s it. You’re not trying to close anyone. You’re trying to connect.

Then, as you cultivate that relationship over time, you create a “gravitational pull” of trust that draws the right people to you…ready to do business with you.

Here’s how I think about it. I teach a concept called the Trust Continuum—a scale from zero to ten. Zero means “I don’t know you and I don’t trust you.” Ten means “I’ll buy whatever you’re selling and tell everyone I know to do the same.”

When you’re networking, all you’re doing is moving someone from a zero to a one. “I didn’t know you. Now I do.”

That’s the entire objective.

And when you give yourself permission to focus only on that zero-to-one move, you show up differently. More relaxed. More curious. More likable. And paradoxically, more effective.

2. No lead gets left behind.

In a funnel, if someone doesn’t convert, they fall out. Gone. All the time and energy you invested? Wasted.

But people don’t stop being potential customers just because they didn’t buy today.

Maybe they weren’t ready. Maybe the timing was off. Maybe the budget wasn’t there yet. In a funnel, those people disappear. In an orbit, they stay in motion, circling at whatever distance reflects their current level of trust and readiness.

You keep nurturing them. Not with aggressive follow-up. Not with “just checking in” emails that go nowhere. With small, genuine touches…a thoughtful LinkedIn comment, a useful article, a quick note when you see something relevant to their business. Each one nudges them a little further to the right on the Trust Continuum.

So when their timing does align—when the budget frees up, when the old vendor drops the ball—you’re the first person they think of.

3. It unlocks the compound effect of trust.

Trust compounds. The more interactions you have with someone, the more they trust you. The more they trust you, the more they open up. The more they open up, the more likely they are to buy—and to refer.

But compounding requires time.

You won’t see the payoff after one networking event. Probably not after five. But somewhere around the three-to-six-month mark of consistently showing up, following up, and building relationships, something shifts. You hit a tipping point. The phone rings. Referrals come in. People you met months ago reach out because they finally have a need. And you’re the one they trust.

The funnel doesn't give you that runway. It's impatient by design…convert now or let them go. The orbit is patient by design. Keep people in motion. Keep building trust. Let the compounding work.

And once you hit that tipping point, growth accelerates because every person who reaches your Center of Gravity starts pulling new people into your outer orbit through referrals and introductions

The How

The Sales Orbit is built on one core principle: trust is the gravitational pull.

Think of it like actual gravity. Every person you meet enters your orbit. And trust—not pressure—is the force that pulls them closer. The stronger your gravitational pull, the closer they get. The weaker it is, the more they drift away.

The 8 Stages of the Sales Orbit

Here’s how the buyer’s journey maps to the orbit model. Each stage represents a deeper level of trust:

1. Awareness — “I know you exist.” You’ve met at an event. You’ve connected on LinkedIn. You’ve gone from a zero to a one on the Trust Continuum. That’s it. And that’s enough…for now.

2. Openness — “I’m open to you.” They’re not looking to buy. But the wall isn’t up. They’ll read your content. They’ll take your call. They’re receptive.

3. Interest — “This is relevant to me.” Something clicked. They have a specific need, and what you do might address it. They’re paying attention now.

4. Priority — “This might matter now.” Their need has become urgent enough that they’re actively weighing options. You’re one of them.

5. Commitment — “I trust you enough to buy.” They’ve decided to move forward. Not because you pressured them. Because the trust you built gave them the confidence to say yes.

6. Outcome — “You delivered.” You did what you said you’d do. Most people think customer experience starts here. But if you’ve been following the orbit model, you’ve been delivering an exceptional experience since Stage 1.

7. Status — “I look good because of you.” Your work made them look smart for choosing you. When someone’s reputation benefits from hiring you, they become fiercely loyal.

8. Partnership — “I refer you. I advocate for you.” They’re no longer just a customer. They’re a partner. They send referrals. They introduce you to their network. They become, essentially, an unpaid member of your sales team.

The 3 Phases: Where the Orbit Becomes Actionable

Those eight stages cluster into three phases. This is where the framework becomes something you can actually use because each phase tells you exactly what your job is and what activities to focus on.

Phase 1: Outer Orbit — Entry and Exposure (Stages 1–2)

Your job: Get on their radar. Go from stranger to known entity.

This is where networking lives. You’re not selling here. You’re planting seeds. You’re showing up at events, posting on LinkedIn, making introductions, and doing low-pressure outreach. Every handshake, every connection request, every “great to meet you” email moves someone from a zero to a one on the Trust Continuum.

The simple definition: You’re on their radar.

The activities: Networking events. LinkedIn content. Introductions. Cold outreach.

Phase 2: Inner Orbit — Engagement and Consideration (Stages 3–4)

Your job: Deepen the relationship. Diagnose problems. Create alignment.

This is where one-to-one conversations happen. You’re asking questions driven by genuine curiosity. You’re learning about their business, their challenges, the gap to their goals. You’re following up across channels…email, LinkedIn, coffee meetings. Trust is compounding with every interaction.

The simple definition: You’re someone they’re considering.

The activities: One-to-one meetings. Discovery conversations. Value-added touches. Multi-channel follow-up.

Phase 3: Center of Gravity — Conversion and Expansion (Stages 5–8)

Your job: Close cleanly. Deliver results. Turn clients into partners.

This is where the prospect stops orbiting and arrives. They've reached the center—the point of highest trust. Here's what makes this fundamentally different from the bottom of a funnel: it doesn't end with the sale. It expands through outcome, status, and partnership. You deliver. You make the customer look great for choosing you. And then they pull new people into your outer orbit through their referrals and introductions.

The simple definition: You’re their trusted provider.

The activities: Scope review calls. Clear closes. Exceptional delivery. Referral activation. Partnerships.

Why This Isn’t Just a Rebranded Funnel

You might be thinking, “Sean, this sounds like Top of Funnel, Middle of Funnel, Bottom of Funnel with different labels.”

It’s not. And the difference matters.

A funnel narrows. It’s designed to eliminate. The whole metaphor is about pouring a large volume in and getting a small trickle out. And anyone who doesn’t convert? Gone.

An orbit expands. Every person who enters stays in motion—moving at their own pace, getting closer as trust builds. And when someone reaches your Center of Gravity and becomes a partner? They pull new people into your outer orbit through referrals. Which means your orbit grows as you serve it.

The funnel is a one-way street. The orbit is a flywheel.

The Now What

Here are three things you can do this week to start operating with an orbit mindset:

Step 1: Reframe how you think about “dead” leads.

Pull up the prospects you wrote off because they didn’t buy. They’re not dead; they’re in your outer orbit. Pick three of them this week and re-engage. Send a value-added touch. Comment on one of their LinkedIn posts. Reconnect without an agenda. Bring them back into motion.

Step 2: Map your top 10 relationships to the 8 stages.

Open a spreadsheet or grab a sheet of paper. Write down the names of your 10 most important prospects or relationships right now. Next to each name, identify which of the 8 stages they’re currently in. Be honest—most of them are probably earlier in the orbit than you think.

Step 3: Identify your “one next nudge” for each.

For each of those 10 relationships, write down the one thing you could do this week to move them one stage closer to a sale…and becoming a partner. That might be a follow-up email, a LinkedIn comment, a coffee invitation, or simply showing up at an event where you know they’ll be.

The Bottom Line

The funnel asks: “How do I get this person to buy?”

The orbit asks: “How do I earn this person’s trust?”

One question creates pressure. The other creates pull.

Build the orbit. The sales will follow.

Sean M. Lyden is the founder and CEO of Systematic Selling, a sales systems training company for growth-minded founders and their sales teams looking to scale their sales (without the chaos).

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• You’ve told your team to “mention other services,” but it’s not happening consistently…or it’s happening badly.

• You suspect the real issue isn’t skill. It’s that your team feels uncomfortable with the whole idea of upselling.

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The What

Imagine…You’re already in the customer’s home or business. They already trust you enough to let you in the door. And yet, most service companies leave too much money on the table every week because their teams don’t know how to bring up additional services.

Or they’re afraid to try.

Today, I’m going to show you the CASH Method—a simple, four-step framework for asking for the upsell in a way that feels helpful, not pushy. It gives your team the exact words and structure to expand the conversation from the service the customer asked for to the other services you offer…without making the customer feel like they’re being “sold.”

The Why

Before we get to the framework, let’s address the elephant in the room.

Why does upselling feel so uncomfortable?

Because most of us are carrying around a toxic frame about what upselling is. We tell ourselves that upselling is being greedy. Being pushy. Being annoying. And when that’s the story running through your head, of course you’re not going to bring up additional services. You don’t want to be that person.

But here’s the reframe:

❌ Upselling is greedy.

✅ Upselling is being of service.

Your customer has a problem they may not even realize exists yet. If you see it and say nothing, you’re not being polite…you’re withholding help.

❌ Upselling is being pushy.

✅ Upselling is protecting the customer’s interests.

You’re the expert. They’re trusting you to look out for them. When you spot something they need and mention it, you’re doing exactly what they hired you to do.

❌ Upselling is being annoying.

✅ Upselling is respecting the customer’s ‘right of refusal.’

If you do it right, upselling doesn’t force anything on anyone. You’re giving the customer the information and the choice. They get to decide. And as you’ll see with the CASH Method, the framework is specifically designed to make saying “no” perfectly comfortable.

Which, counterintuitively, makes getting “yes” much more likely.

Once you make this mental shift, upselling stops feeling stressful and starts feeling like a natural part of the job.

Two Pictures

Now let me paint two pictures so you can see what’s at stake.

Picture #1: You don’t have a system for upselling.

You run a home maintenance company. A customer books you for gutter cleaning. Your tech shows up, cleans the gutters, and heads to the next appointment. Great work. Happy customer.

But that customer has no idea you also offer dryer vent cleaning, pressure washing, window washing, and a dozen other services — all of which could have been bundled into a single visit. So next month, they’re Googling “dryer vent cleaning near me” and hiring someone else. Not because they didn’t like you. They just didn’t know.

Meanwhile, you’re spending more money on marketing to attract new customers, when the easiest revenue was already standing right in front of your team.

Picture #2: Your team is trained on the CASH Method.

Your tech arrives at the job, casually mentions the other services you offer, and asks a simple, low-pressure question. The customer says, “Actually, yeah—I’ve been meaning to get that taken care of.”

Boom. The average ticket goes up. The customer gets more value. And your team doesn’t feel uncomfortable with asking for the upsell.

Here’s the reality: your customers want to know what else you offer. They’d rather hire someone they already trust than start from scratch with a new provider.

When you don’t mention your other services, you’re not being “polite.” You’re doing the customer a disservice.

But you can’t just tell your team, “Hey, start upselling.” That’s how you get awkward pitches that damage trust.

You need a framework. A script. A system.

That’s where the CASH Method comes in.

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The How

The CASH Method is a four-step sequence designed to make the upsell feel like a natural extension of the service you’re already providing…not an awkward sales pitch bolted on at the end.

Here’s how each step works:

C — Catalog

Purpose: Expand awareness.

Most customers only know you for the one service they called you about. The “Catalog” step is where you plant the seed by letting them know what else you offer.

The script:

“You may not know this, but we also offer [Service A], [Service B], and [Service C].”

That’s it. No pressure. No pitch. Just information.

Why does this matter? Because you can’t sell what people don’t know you offer. This step builds the bridge from “I hired you for one thing” to “Oh, you do that too?”

A — Ask

Purpose: Open the door without pressure.

Now that the customer knows what else you offer, invite them to explore it—with a question, not a push.

The script:

“So, while we’re here, would you like us to provide you an estimate on anything else—or on those areas as well?”

Notice the phrasing. You’re not saying, “You should also get your [X] done.” You’re asking if they’d like an estimate. It’s an invitation, not a directive.

And the phrase “while we’re here” is doing the heavy lifting—it signals convenience, not an additional sales call.

S — Save

Purpose: Reinforce that saying “yes” is logical, not unreasonable.

Here’s where you give the customer a rational reason to say yes—one grounded in their self-interest.

The script:

“That way, you can save time and money by having it all done in one visit.”

This step reframes the upsell from “you’re spending more” to “you’re being smart about it.” It removes the friction by appealing to efficiency, something every homeowner and business owner values.

You’re showing them how to save, not asking them to spend more.

H — Hold

Purpose: Get more “yeses” by making it easier to say “no.”

This is the most counterintuitive step in the framework.

The script:

“Or would you prefer to hold off for now?”

Wait—why would you give them an easy out?

Because when people feel pressured, they resist. But when they feel like they have a genuine choice—when saying “no” is perfectly okay—they’re more likely to say “yes.”

The “Hold” step removes the tension. It tells the customer, “I’m not here to pressure you. I’m here to help.” And paradoxically, that’s exactly what gets them to lean in.

Remember the reframe: upselling is respecting their “right of refusal.” The “Hold” step is where you put that value into practice.

Putting It All Together

Here’s what the full CASH Method sounds like in practice.

Your tech arrives on site to clean the gutters and says:

"You may not know this, but we also offer dryer vent cleaning, pressure washing, and window cleaning.

So, while we're here, would you like us to take a look at any of those aspects of your home and provide you an estimate? That way, you can save time and money by having it all done in one visit. Or would you prefer to hold off for now?"

Notice how it flows. It’s conversational. It’s helpful. And it takes less than 30 seconds to deliver.

The customer doesn’t feel ambushed. They feel informed. And that’s the difference between upselling that builds trust and upselling that breaks it.

The What Now

Here’s your assignment to put the CASH Method into action this week:

Step 1: Check your mindset.

Before you train your team on the framework, take an honest look at your own beliefs about upselling. Are you carrying the old frame—greedy, pushy, annoying?

Write down the reframe and put it somewhere your team can see it: Upselling is being of service. Upselling is protecting their interests. Upselling is respecting their right of refusal.

If you don’t believe it, your team won’t either.

Step 2: Build your Catalog.

Sit down and list every service your company offers. Then, for each service, identify the 2–3 other services that are the most natural cross-sell or upsell.

For example, if you’re an HVAC company, a routine maintenance call is a natural opening to mention duct cleaning or air quality testing. Write these pairings down so your team knows exactly what to mention and when.

Step 3: Write your CASH scripts.

Using the framework above, write out the full CASH sequence for your top 2–3 service pairings. Make them sound natural.

Step 4: Role-play it.

Before your next team meeting, pair up your reps and/or your lead technicians and have them practice the CASH script on each other. One person plays the rep/ tech; the other plays the customer.

Run through it a few times until it feels natural, not robotic.

The goal isn’t perfection. It’s getting in the repetitions. The more you and your team practice and use the CASH Method, the more natural it becomes…and the more revenue you’ll generate from customers who are already standing right in front of you.

Sean M. Lyden is the founder and CEO of Systematic Selling, a sales systems training company for growth-minded founders and their sales teams looking to scale their sales (without the chaos).

• You’re leaving money on the table by not confidently asking for the sale.

• You see opportunities but hesitate to ask for what you want.

• You’re stuck at your current level because you won’t make bold asks.

• You need more help, support, or resources, but fear hearing “no.”

Three years ago, I shared 50 ‘Lyden’s Life Lessons’ for my 50th birthday to document principles I’ve learned to live by.

I’ve added to the list each year since.

Here’s #53…

~ Sean

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Today, I turn 53. As I reflect on my biggest wins in business and life, they all have one thing in common:

I had to ask for something I wasn’t sure I’d get.

An ask that made me feel uncomfortable, but I did it anyway.

But the opposite is also true:

My biggest regrets aren’t from hearing “no.” They’re from never asking in the first place.

So here’s the next Lyden’s Life Lesson:

#53. Anytime you’re frustrated with where you are in life, remember: “You have not because you ask not.”

The context of this verse in James is about asking God for big things, through prayer, faith, and pure motives.

The same principle applies when asking other people.

Asking for the sale. Someone’s support. Help with a problem. For them to champion your idea.

But here’s what stops most people:

The fear of “no.”

So they don’t ask. And the opportunity passes them by.

The solution?

Learn to ask in a way that takes the sting out of rejection.

I call it the “Assume the No” technique.

How it works:

By acknowledging upfront that “no” is a possibility, you:

1. Lower their defenses - You’re not pressuring them

2. Lower your fear - You’ve already “survived” the potential rejection

3. Increase your odds of yes - By making them feel safe to say no.

Here’s what this sounds like:

• “This may not work for you, but would you be open to...”

• “If you’re not opposed, the next step would be...Would that work for you?”

• “You’ve probably already considered this, but have you tried...”

• “How would you like to proceed...if at all?”

• “Would it kill the budget if we raised our rate to...”

• “Which of these options most resonates with you? Or do you have something completely different in mind?”

Here’s the truth most people miss:

When you assume the no, you stop rejecting yourself before the other person even has a chance to say yes.

Fortune favors the bold. But boldness doesn’t mean being pushy.

It means having the courage to ask.

And the skill to ask in a way that serves everyone’s interests.

So ask yourself:

What’s one thing I need to ask for today that I’ve been putting off?

Make the ask.

Now.

Lyden’s Life Lessons: 52 to 1

52. How do you avoid future regret? Shorten the distance between thought and action.

51. Follow your systems, not your feelings.

50. In the race of life, commit to ‘finish strong.’ Don’t back off before the finish line. Surge through it!

49. Lean into Imposter Syndrome. It’s the feeling you get at the cusp of any breakthrough success.

48. Spend money to save time.

47. Learn how—and when—to say no.

46. Fear mediocrity, not failure.

45. Find joy in the journey—especially the struggles.

44. Surround yourself with people who raise your game.

43. Dress to show respect.

42. Treat everyone with dignity and respect—especially your enemies and critics. The high road leads to less drama and more time for those you love.

41. Solve people’s problems, and you’ll never be unemployed.

40. In sales, replace “ABC” with ABS: Always Be Serving.

39. Reject rejection. People don’t reject you as a person. They reject your words, ideas, offer, or product. Don’t take it personally.

38. Inspire others to break through their barriers to success by breaking through your own.

37. Thank those who doubted you.

36. Turn setbacks into stepping stones to success.

35. Practice the Power of Negative Thinking. “What could go wrong? What could derail me from my goals? How can I counteract those obstacles preemptively?”

34. Accomplish big goals with small steps.

33. Stay grounded by deepening your faith.

32. Don’t worry about the failure that could be. Worry about the regret that’s guaranteed if you don’t try.

31. Embrace the grind to savor the breakthrough.

30. Learn how to sell without selling your soul.

29. Be intentional about rest and recovery. (In music, the rests are just as important as the notes.)

28. Learn from mistakes. Preferably other people’s mistakes.

27. Complain with kindness.

26. Live each day with urgency—and patience.

25. Celebrate success, but don’t rest on it.

24. Embrace failure, but don’t repeat it.

23. Stretch your comfort zone daily. Life’s best opportunities lie on the other side of fear.

22. Pursue excellence in the 5 F’s of your life—Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness, and Friendships. Weakness in any area puts your entire life out of kilter.

21. Demand more of yourself than anyone else could ever imagine expecting of you.

20. Earn respect by respecting yourself first.

19. Replace a bad habit with an enjoyable good one.

18. Make the decision and move on. Second-guessing yourself is a colossal waste of time.

17. Be willing to feel hurt to experience love at its fullest.

16. Remember the Caterpillar and the Butterfly. In your struggle to break out of your darkest moments, you transform into something new and build the strength in your wings to soar.

15. Persist until you succeed, but also know when it’s wise to quit.

14. Be generous with your time, ideas, attention, smiles, compliments, and money.

13. Stop arguing and start listening. You don’t win people over with logic. You win them over by listening.

12. Cover your downside when taking big risks.

11. Question your faith to strengthen it.

10. Embrace change before it’s forced on you.

9. Assume any text, email, or anything in writing will become public.

8. Master persuasion as the most valuable skill you can learn for success in life.

7. Give your kids the gift of working through their own struggles.

6. Date your spouse. Marriage is a garden that requires consistent attention to flourish.

5. Be your own boss—no matter who you work for.

4. Never let your ego get in the way of your wallet.

3. Work smart—and hard.

2. Get over yourself. Anything worth doing is worth sucking at it…at first.

1. Stop talking and start doing. NOW!

Sean M. Lyden is the founder and CEO of Systematic Selling, a sales systems training company for growth-minded founders and their sales teams looking to scale their sales (without the chaos).

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Have you ever experienced this scenario?

You get a hot prospect. All the signals are green. They’re excited. They tell you they’re ready to move forward. So you spend time crafting a detailed proposal, hit send, and then…

Crickets.

You follow up once. Twice. Ten times. Still nothing.

Why do prospects ghost you? And what can you do about it?

In this episode from a recent talk I delivered for the East Orlando Chamber’s Merchant Monday at Trustco Bank Lake Nona, I break down four techniques to help you get ghosted less and close more.

1. The Budget Pre-Sale

We’ve all been there. You spend hours crafting the perfect proposal, send it off with confidence… and then radio silence.

Often, the reason is simple: sticker shock.

That’s why I bring up pricing early — but not by asking, “What’s your budget?” Because nine times out of ten, the prospect doesn’t know or won’t tell you.

Instead, I set a realistic range to start the conversation.

“For a project like this, the investment is typically between $5,000 and $7,000. Does that fit what you were expecting to invest?”

Notice the keyword there: investment.

“Investment” positions the conversation around value, not cost.

From there, one of two things happens: either they confirm the range feels right, or they reveal new information — maybe a competitor’s quote or an internal budget cap. Either way, I’ve turned a guessing game into a real conversation.

And if their number is far below my range? Great. I’ve just saved us both time by confirming we’re not a fit right now.

The Budget Pre-Sale eliminates surprises later and ensures both parties are aligned before moving forward.

2. The Scope Review Call

As much as you can make this happen, the written proposal should formalize what’s already been agreed upon verbally.

That means the first time a client sees your full scope and investment shouldn’t be in an email attachment.

My clients in the service trades call this the Scope Review Call. It’s a brief call where they walk through the scope and investment together with the customer, before the proposal is ever sent.

During that conversation, they confirm that the deliverables, timeline, and investment align with their expectations. And if adjustments are needed, they make them live, in real time.

By the end, the client feels like a co-author of the plan. They have ownership. They’re not waiting to “see what the price will be.” They already know.

3. The Clear Close

Here’s a confession: early in my sales career, I ended too many emails with the line, “Let me know if you have any questions.”

Sound familiar?

It feels polite, but it’s vague. And ambiguity kills momentum.

Now, I make sure every proposal includes a clear next step — spelled out in plain language.

Instead of “proposal,” I call it a “Game Plan Recap.” It reminds the buyer that we’ve already agreed on most of the plan — we’re simply confirming it.

Then I write something like this:

“Attached is your Game Plan Recap. If everything looks good, reply ‘approved,’ and I’ll send the invoice for your initial session. Once payment is received, we’ll get started right away based on the scope we discussed.”

There’s no confusion about what happens next.

And I always include a pressure-free “out”:

“If anything here doesn’t match what we talked about, let me know and we’ll make adjustments.”

This builds trust and keeps communication open.

4. The L-A-P Method for Clarifying Objections

Most sales trainers call it “overcoming objections.”

I prefer to clarify them. Because when you try to overcome something, it becomes adversarial. But when you clarify, it becomes collaborative.

That’s the heart of the L-A-P Method — Label, Ask, Propose.

Let’s say a client says, “I need to think about it.”

Here’s how you can respond:

1. Label: “It sounds like you’re not 100% sure this is the right step right now.”
   (This shows empathy and lowers their defenses.)

2. Ask: “Is there something specific you’re unsure about — the investment, timing, or something else?”
   (Now you’re isolating the real issue.)

3. Propose: “Would it make sense if we looked at a few ways to spread that investment over time?”
   (You’re helping them solve, not pushing them to decide.)

This method turns objections into conversations that deepen trust.

Why This Works

When I teach these techniques to clients, they often ask, “Sean, doesn’t this slow down the sales process?”

And I tell them: it does — in the best way possible.

Fast sales often equal bad sales. When you slow down early, you speed up later. You reduce ghosting, avoid price resistance, and close stronger deals with clients who are truly aligned.

Final Thought: Sales Is Alignment, Not Pressure

At Systematic Selling, our credo is simple:

Sales is not about convincing people to buy. It’s about finding or creating alignment between the customer’s problem and your solution.

When you focus on alignment, you don’t need gimmicks or high-pressure tactics. You simply guide people toward clarity.

And that’s how you crush your close rate…systematically.

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• You’re not sure how to close without sounding pushy.

• Buyers go silent after you “follow up” a few times.

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• You want to be consistent with posting on LinkedIn, but you’re a perfectionist.

• You feel like you don’t have enough time to invest in LinkedIn.

• You’ve posted before, but nothing ever seems to land.

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• Closing high-ticket B2B deals feels like a constant uphill battle.

• You’re struggling to build a sales team that can replicate your success.

• Your employees are hesitant to share honest feedback or ideas.

Today, we have Fernando Clemente on the Systematic Selling Podcast.

Fernando is the founder and president of Digital Mules, a full-service digital marketing agency based in South Florida, which he grew from a side hustle to a multimillion-dollar agency with 26 employees, including a two-person sales team led by Fernando.

This episode dives deep into:

• Fernando’s unconventional path to entrepreneurship, including failed businesses and pivotal life moments like a car accident that reshaped his trajectory.

• The importance of transparency in leadership and how opening the books to his team doubled Digital Mules’ growth.

• Strategies for selling intangible, high-ticket services by focusing on client value and problem-solving.

• The role of patience in building a sales team and the key performance indicators (KPIs) that fuel long-term success.

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• You struggle to come up with fresh ideas for your LinkedIn posts.

• You lose great content ideas because you don’t have a way to capture them quickly.

• You want to post consistently on LinkedIn but lack a reliable system to capture and organize content ideas.

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• You’re struggling to generate consistent referrals.

• You’re spending too much effort on low-close-rate opportunities.

• You’re lacking a scalable system for selling high-touch, personalized services.

Today, we have Shea Sen on the Systematic Selling Podcast.

He is the founder and chief service officer of Silver Lining Home Services, based in Orlando, Florida. Founded in 2020, Silver Linings provides comprehensive moving, junk removal, move-out cleaning, and senior move management services, with a focus on easing real estate transitions for homeowners and seniors.

Shea, a former Air Force pilot with decades of experience in sales, business development, and entrepreneurship, shares his journey from launching a lawn care business in high school to building a high-end audio retail empire and eventually founding Silver Lining.

Shea’s business philosophy centers on serving clients by solving their problems through strategic partnerships and a servant-leadership mindset. He discusses how he leverages relationships with realtors, property managers, and senior living communities to drive referrals, the importance of emotional intelligence in serving senior clients, and how he fosters a culture that encourages team members to grow—even if it means starting their own businesses.

This episode is packed with insights for entrepreneurs, sales professionals, and home service business owners looking to scale through partnerships, prioritize service, and build a lasting legacy.

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Today, on Episode 27 of the Systematic Selling Podcast…

My talk on “‘Sink or Swim’ is Not a Strategy: 7 Steps to Set Up Your Reps for Success”

Sales turnover is brutal—especially for small businesses.

It’s expensive, disruptive, and demoralizing. And if you’ve ever felt the pain of losing a key sales rep, struggling to fill the role, and dealing with a drop in revenue in the meantime, you’re not alone.

Consider these statistics:

• 35% - Average sales turnover rate—more than twice as high as any other role

• 47% - Sales reps who leave citing poor onboarding and training

• 200% - Estimated percentage of a sales rep's salary it costs to replace them

• 44% - Sales reps planning to leave their job within two years

• 10+ months - Time it typically takes for a new sales rep to become fully productive

• 18 months - Average tenure of a sales rep.

I've seen this play out countless times with companies. They invest considerable time and resources to hire a sales representative, only to see that person walk out the door within 18 months. This means you might only get eight months of true productivity after all that investment.

So how do we break this cycle?

I've developed a seven-step cycle to slow the churn and accelerate your organization’s transformation into an elite sales team.

Let me walk you through it.

Step 1: Define Ambitious and Attainable Targets (00:02:44)

How many of you have left a strategic planning meeting thinking, "They're smoking crack—there's no way we're hitting those numbers"?

The problem is that goals are often disconnected from reality, specifically from the true price tag of the strategy and resources needed to achieve them.

This disconnect creates unrealistic targets that demoralize your sales team, leading to burnout, resentment, and eventually turnover. The key is to ground your goals in reality.

Try this strategic planning agenda for sales:

1. Debrief: Determine your current state—revenue, gross profit, and margin. How do these numbers stack up historically? Any records set? How do revenue streams rank by percentage? Who are your top clients?

2. Forecast: What are your projected revenue, gross profit, and gross margin targets? What assumptions underlie these numbers? What quarterly milestones should you establish to track progress?

3. Strategy: Ask this money question: "Imagine 12 months from now, we've hit our forecast. What will we have done to make that happen?" This question taps into the persuasion principle of thinking past the sale, helping everyone visualize success.

4. Team: Assess your current sales team size and composition. What's your sales turnover rate? What are your team's most notable strengths? What skill gaps need to be filled to hit your forecast? Are you ready to hire more reps?

5. Resources: Does your team have the tools they need to succeed? Consider technology, marketing support, industry events, training, and coaching investments. Ask, “What haven't we considered that we should?”

6. Action: Define immediate steps, responsibilities, and deadlines. Schedule a follow-up meeting to maintain momentum—what I call the "this meeting, next meeting" principle. Never break the chain.

The goal isn't ironclad targets but getting initial targets out of your head and into a discussion with your team to sanity-check them.

Step 2: Audit Your Sales Systems (00:10:45)

Once you've defined targets and set your strategy, identify vulnerabilities in your sales systems that could hinder you from hitting your mark. There are 10 integrated systems that drive sales success, and if any of them slow down or grind to a halt, your entire operation suffers.

Step 3: Fix Your Broken Systems (00:12:22)

After your systems audit, prioritize which issues would make the biggest immediate impact if addressed. You can't tackle everything at once, so focus on the critical few that will move the needle. Test the fix and then document it in your sales playbook.

One of the biggest mistakes I see owners make is hiring a rep and expecting that person to solve all their sales problems. That's not how it works. Fix your sales systems first. Then hire more new reps to help you run and optimize those systems.

Step 4: Hire the Right Fit (00:12:48)

I recommend evaluating sales candidates through three lenses:

Lens 1: Company Stage

• Stage One: Founder-led sales

• Stage Two: Founder-managed sales

• Stage Three: Specialized roles (VP Sales, Sales Manager, SDR)

Lens 2: Candidate Profile

• Rookie: No bad habits, relatively inexpensive, but lacks experience

• Emerging Star: Some experience but hasn't hit their prime

• All-Star: Making bank where they are, which means you'll need to pay top dollar

• Sunsetter: Looking for higher base compensation rather than commission upside (a red flag)

Lens 3: Character

The mantra I drill into my clients: Hire for character, train for success.

If you get the character right—grit, emotional intelligence, work ethic—you can mold and shape them.

But how do you get at the truth in interviews?

Avoid standard questions like "What's your greatest weakness?"

Instead, draw candidates out with scenario-based questions. For example, to assess integrity, ask: "Describe a situation where you had to deliver bad news to a customer. How did you handle it? What guided your approach?"

Step 5: Formalize Your Onboarding and Training (00:18:00)

Consider these statistics:

• 10 weeks is the average training requirement for a newly hired sales rep.

• Teams that invest in sales training are 57% more effective than those that don't.

• And 94% of reps would stay longer if the business invested in their careers.

Proper onboarding starts before day one. Prepare everything in advance and contact the new hire a day or two before they start with a warm welcome. This small act of kindness goes a long way.

Then, make those sales reps feel like kings and queens in public. Announce them to your customer lists and on LinkedIn. Encourage team members to welcome them in the comments. This doesn't take much time but sets a powerful tone that says, "We value you."

For training, I've identified 17 areas crucial for B2B sales reps, starting with your company's vision, mission, and values—why you exist, what's important to you as a company.

Think of training delivery on three levels:

1. Classroom: Learn the concept

2. Application: Put the concept into action

3. Debrief: Provide feedback to make adjustments

For rookies, think about where you can slot them in immediately to bring value. Could they start as sales support or an SDR, freeing up experienced reps to focus on closing? This approach allows them to bring immediate value while developing their skills.

Step 6: Instill a Learning Culture (00:26:00)

Create an environment of continuous improvement through:

• Weekly tactical meetings

• Book discussions

• An on-site library

• Access to online training

• Reading trade media covering your customers' industries.

Step 7: Coach for Ongoing Success (00:26:29)

Training is not a set-it-and-forget-it program. Meet with your reps regularly and coach effectively during one-on-ones.

I recommend a Socratic approach rather than being prescriptive.

For example:

When a rep asks, "What should I do about X?" resist the temptation to immediately say, "You should do Y and Z."

Instead, ask, "What does your gut instinct tell you?"

If their answer makes sense, say, "Sounds like you have your answer. What's holding you back?"

If their answer is off course, don't say, "That's a stupid idea." Ask, "How do you see that playing out?"

The Socratic approach guides them to discovery so they own the action they need to take.

A typical coaching agenda I follow includes:

• End Zone: Wins (debrief successes)

• Red Zone: Pending proposals (getting deals over the line)

• Pipeline: Prospects and discovery meetings

• Prospecting: Lead generation

• Conflict Resolution: Mismatched expectations, invoice disputes (00:28:00)

The Vince Lombardi Example

Vince Lombardi was hired by the Green Bay Packers in 1959 after they had suffered 10 straight losing seasons. In his first team meeting, he said, "I have never been on a losing team, gentlemen, and I do not intend to start now."

Unlike today's NFL, Lombardi couldn't easily change players through free agency and trades. He had to work with the "losers" he inherited.

Yet he turned them into winners, leading the Packers to five NFL championships, including the first two Super Bowls.

That team of "losers" would produce nine NFL Hall of Famers.

As Packers.com described it, "Lombardi immediately changed the way the team looked, the way it played, and especially how it thought."

I share this story because it demonstrates how just one person can transform the culture and performance of an entire team. No matter how long you've been in your role or how well your sales team performs, you can flip the switch to transform your sales team into a finely tuned, high-performance machine.

My Challenge to You

In Atomic Habits, author James Clear says it best: “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.”

So, follow the 7-step cycle to build your sales systems that rise to the level of your highest ambitions 👊

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Sales isn’t about convincing people to buy.

It’s about finding or creating alignment between your prospect’s problem and your solution.

Too many founders and salespeople—especially those new to the game—think their job is to persuade, pitch, or pressure. But the reality is that sales isn’t about pushing; it’s about serving.

Recently, I had the opportunity to share this perspective with the East Orlando Chamber of Commerce Ambassadors in a talk titled “How to Sell the Chamber (Without Being Salesy).”

While the discussion focused on how to effectively sell the Chamber and its benefits, the 5-point framework I shared applies to selling ANYTHING—whether you're a business owner, sales professional, or simply someone looking to build stronger professional relationships.

So, how do you sell in a way that feels natural, builds trust, and creates long-term success?

It all comes down to one simple word: SERVE.

1. S – Set 1:1 Meetings

2. E – Earn Trust

3. R – Relate Benefits to Goals

4. V – Value Everyone

5. E – Engage Consistently

Let’s break down each point.

1. S – Set 1:1 Meetings (00:01:16)

One-on-one meetings are where the magic happens.

That’s because there’s a direct correlation between the number of quality one-on-one conversations you have and the number of qualified prospects that come out on the other end.

Why? Because trust is built through genuine, focused conversations. These meetings allow you to:

✔ Learn about the other person’s challenges, goals, and needs.
✔ Ask meaningful questions that uncover opportunities.
✔ Establish credibility by showing you’re there to help—not just sell.

💡 Pro Tip:
A good one-on-one meeting follows the 70/30 rule—let the other person talk 70% of the time. Why? Because the more they talk, the more they like and trust you.

Example: I once met with a landscaping business owner. He talked for 90% of our meeting, and at the end, he realized he needed help hiring sales reps—exactly where I could help. That meeting turned into a sales opportunity, not because I pitched, but because I listened.

2. E – Earn Trust (00:04:00)

Trust is the foundation of sales. Without it, you have nothing.

I like to think of sales relationships (or any relationships for that matter) on what we call “The Trust Continuum” from 0 to 10:

• 0 = I don’t know you, I don’t trust you.

• 10 = Impeccable trust = I want to buy whatever you’re willing to sell me.

Your goal in every interaction is to nudge people along that continuum.

How?

✔ Be authentic. People can sense when you’re being fake.
✔ Do what you say you’re going to do. If you promise to follow up, do it.
✔ Set clear expectations. If you offer to make an introduction, let both parties know what to expect.👇

The bottom line:
One of the fastest ways to destroy trust is to overpromise and underdeliver. Instead, be upfront, be reliable, and follow through.

3. R – Relate Benefits to Goals (00:07:15)

If you want to sell more effectively, stop pushing products and start connecting solutions to the customer’s specific goals.

Here’s where most salespeople go wrong:

They overload prospects with too many options, thinking they’re being helpful. But research shows that when people face too many choices, they freeze. It’s called the ambiguity effect.

What is the Ambiguity Effect?

The ambiguity effect is a cognitive bias where people tend to avoid options or choices when they lack complete information about them. In sales, this means that when you overwhelm prospects with too many choices or vague benefits, they hesitate and procrastinate on making a decision.

Here’s a deeper explanation with an example👇

How to Overcome the Ambiguity Effect

Simplify the decision-making process by focusing on:

✔ Asking, not telling. Instead of saying, “You need this,” ask, “Would this help you achieve your goal?”
✔ Offering fewer options. Instead of listing every feature, recommend the one, two, or (at most) three options for solving their problem/ achieving their goal.

4. V – Value Everyone (00:10:18)

Want to build strong relationships that lead to sales? Make people feel valued.

Whether it’s a prospect, a customer, or a networking contact, approach every interaction with the question:

👉 "How can I add value to this person?"

Example: Networking Connections Create Chain Reactions

Before I joined the East Orlando Chamber of Commerce, I attended a networking event alone. I was standing there, feeling like an outsider, when a Chamber Ambassador approached me, introduced herself, and started introducing me to others.

That one small act of making me feel valued led to new relationships, new opportunities, and ultimately, me becoming a chamber member.

Here’s the full story 👇

5. E – Engage Consistently (00:14:00)

The money is in the follow-up.

If you’re not staying in touch, you’re losing opportunities. But engagement isn’t just about sales follow-ups—it’s about building authentic relationships.

Ways to stay engaged:

✔ Connect on LinkedIn. And don’t just add them—DM them, comment on their posts, share their content.
✔ Send value-driven emails. Instead of “Just checking in,” send an article, a referral, or a helpful tip.
✔ Be present in their world. If they post about a business win, congratulate them. If they share a challenge, offer insight.

See:

• 033: Selling on LinkedIn (Without Being Salesy)—Part 1: Your Connections Strategy

• 034: Selling on LinkedIn (Without Being Salesy)—Part 2: Your DM Strategy

The bottom line:

Sales is about momentum. The more consistently you engage, the more opportunities you create.

Final Thought: Sales is About Serving

If you commit to SERVE—Set one-on-ones, Earn trust, Relate benefits to goals, Value everyone, and Engage consistently—you’ll:

✔ Sell without feeling "salesy"
✔ Open up more opportunities
✔ Build lasting relationships
✔ Attract business naturally.

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Tamara is the founder of Monivan Digital Marketing Solutions, launched in 2018.

She has over two decades of digital marketing experience across several key sectors, including hospitality, travel, healthcare, and education, helping brands grow revenue online.

An amazing fact: Tamara was selected from over 3000 candidates to be the E-commerce Manager at Hilton Worldwide. There, she developed and executed digital strategies that reclaimed the Hilton brand’s search engine market share.

She’s also host of the popular Your Business in Digital podcast.

I’ve gotten to know Tamara through the East Orlando Chamber of Commerce here in Orlando, Fla. She’s the real deal when it comes to digital marketing, and I’ve spoken with several of her clients here in Orlando who sing her praises.

That’s why I invited her to join us—to talk about how we can integrate digital marketing strategies and best practices into our B2B sales processes.

So, without further adieu, let’s get ready for Episode 25 of the Systematic Selling Podcast!

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• Your competitors seem to be using LinkedIn more effectively, and it shows.

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This is the seventh installment of the 4-Farmland Matrix (4FM) series. In it, we unpack a simple four-part framework that helps you identify and capitalize on your most promising sales opportunities—whether they’re new prospects, current clients, or ones that got away.

So far, we’ve covered these topics:

The 4-Farmland Matrix: Overview

• 026: Packing Your Pipeline with Low-Hanging Fruit.

Farmland 1: New (Desirable fields yet to be acquired)

• 027: The Psychology of Prospecting Success.

• 028: The One-Sentence Elevator Pitch.

  • 031: Micro Lesson: How to Generate Your Elevator Pitch Using AI.

• 029: Moving Beyond ‘Hope-Based’ Prospecting.

• 032: The Systematic Networking Playbook.

Preview

In a previous article, I introduced the four ‘components’ of Systematic Prospecting in your sales process:

1. Systematic Networking

2. Systematic Social Selling

3. Systematic Outreach.

4. Systematic Referrals.

In the last post, we discussed the 12 Steps of Systematic Networking. Today, we begin our discussion of the second component: Systematic Social Selling.

Overview

If you’re in B2B sales and not growing your LinkedIn connections, you’re making a huge mistake.

Too many founders and sales reps see LinkedIn as just another social media platform.

But it’s so much more than that.

LinkedIn is:

• Your stage (to demonstrate your expertise).

• Your network (to lay the foundation for success).

• Your potential deal flow (to convert to new sales).

And yet, so many aren’t investing the time to grow their connections.

They’re not intentional.

They’re not systematic.

Here’s why that’s a mistake:

Every LinkedIn connection increases your follower base, which boosts your posts’ visibility and engagement.

• If you want to stop posting into a black hole where no one sees your content…

• If you want to attract more qualified leads on LinkedIn…

• If you want to close more sales with LinkedIn…

Grow your connections.

The Connection Request is the tip of the spear of your LinkedIn Social Selling Strategy.

You get 100 Connection Requests (CRs) per week with the free version of LinkedIn and 250 CRs per week for premium accounts.

So, nothing is stopping you.

But how can you expand your LinkedIn network with more of the right people who fit your Ideal Customer Profile (ICP)?

Follow the 3Rs:

1. Reframe: View your LinkedIn network as an Auto-Update Rolodex.

2. Reinforce: Strengthen relationships with clients and other warm contacts.

3. Reach out: Pursue new connections and open new doors.

Let’s break each of these down.

1. Reframe.

Think of your LinkedIn network as a living, breathing ‘Rolodex’ that updates itself to track when your prospects change roles, companies, or locations.

For example, when your connection lands that VP position at your target account or moves to a company that fits your ICP, LinkedIn automatically keeps you informed, creating timely opportunities for warm outreach.

This ‘Auto-Update Rolodex’ doesn't just store contact information—it reveals critical context about your prospects' challenges, aspirations, and professional milestones, all of which you can leverage to initiate more meaningful conversations.

When you adopt this mindset, you will become more motivated to grow your LinkedIn network—and your sales opportunities.

2. Reinforce.

Start by connecting on LinkedIn with your existing business contacts. This will reinforce your relationships with every client, prospect, industry peer, and collaborative partner who represents a potential gateway to their broader network.

These warm connections are more likely to engage with your content, provide introductions, and serve as your unofficial ambassadors, creating a ripple effect that extends your reach far beyond direct sales efforts.

Also, maintaining an active LinkedIn presence with your existing contacts keeps you top-of-mind for referrals and creates natural opportunities for organic account expansion.

Therefore, if you haven’t already done so, connect with these warm contacts:

1. Current Clients

2. Inactive Clients

3. Prospects

4. Networking Contacts

5. Leads (you’ve met).

3. Reach out.

LinkedIn offers multiple paths to discover and connect with your ICP.

Where do you find these new potential leads to connect with?

• Comment sections of industry thought leaders

• Company pages (search “People”)

• LinkedIn Jobs page

• Relevant LinkedIn groups

• Industry hashtags

• The "People Also Viewed" sidebar on the contact’s profile

• The “Similar Profiles” sidebar on the contact’s profile

• The “My Network” page that recommends connections based on your activity, location, and affiliations (college, former employers, etc.)

All of this information is available to you with the free version of LinkedIn.

So, how should you connect once you find the right people?

A simple connection request without a note often works best. It feels more natural and avoids the immediate resistance that comes with obviously sales-focused messages.

The Next Step

Once you’ve connected, how do you use LinkedIn to cultivate your new connections?

That’s where your Direct Message (DM) strategy comes into play, which we’ll discuss in Part 2 of “Selling on LinkedIn” in the February 14 edition of the Systematic Selling Newsletter.

In the meantime, be on the lookout next week for Episode 25 of the Systematic Selling Podcast!

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• Your sales process feels random and unpredictable.

• You keep losing deals on price and don't know why.

• Your proposal conversion rate is lower than you'd like.

Late last year, I joined James Groves and Bill DeMent, owners of the Hole in the Wall Drywall Repair, on the Hole in the Wall Podcast.

We covered a wide range of topics, including my personal story, which I haven’t shared much before here.

And we dug deep into the nuts and bolts of Systematic Selling—with a ton of practical sales advice you can apply immediately to your business.

So, I asked James and Bill for their permission to share this episode with you.

We talked about:

• How the right systems can transform random sales processes into predictable results.

• The crucial difference between 'incumbent' and 'discretionary' businesses and how it affects your sales strategy.

• Strategic ways to use LinkedIn beyond just posting content, including an intentional and systematic approach to DMs and relationship-building.

• The importance of presenting budgets during Discovery rather than waiting for the Proposal stage.

• Why networking serves different purposes for different industries and how to use it effectively.

• A systematic approach to cold emails that focuses on helping rather than selling.

• How to establish long-term B2B relationships through strategic trust-building.

Here’s the episode from the Hole in the Wall Podcast with Bill and James!

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Sean M. Lyden is the founder and CEO of Systematic Selling, a sales systems and coaching company for growth-minded SMB founders and owners looking to scale their sales (without the chaos).

• Your networking efforts are random and unstructured, with inconsistent follow-up and lost opportunities.

• You find yourself avoiding events out of fear and insecurity in your ability to ‘work the room.’

• You’re frustrated because you haven’t seen any results from all the events you’ve attended.

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• Your elevator pitch either says too much or is too vague, but you feel stuck with how to improve it.

• You've spent hours trying to perfect your pitch, but it still doesn't feel quite right.

• You walk away from introductions feeling like you didn't do your business justice.

Overview

In 028: The One-Sentence Elevator Pitch, I shared the 5C Structure for crafting a one-sentence elevator pitch you can deliver in 10 seconds or less.

The 5Cs include:

1. Category: A clear statement of what product, service, or solution you provide.

2. Customer: Your ideal customer profile (ICP)

3. <Connector>: This phrase connects the Customer to the Change they want (Ex: Looking to…)

4. Change: The primary transformation or benefit your customer will experience.

5. (Caveat): A unique qualifier or differentiator that sets you apart.

For example, our one-sentence elevator pitch at Systematic Selling looks like this:

1. Category: We provide sales systems coaching and training for

2. Customer: growth-minded SMB founders and owners

3. <Connector> looking to

4. Change: scale their sales

5. (Caveat): (without the chaos).

What would your one-sentence pitch look like with the 5C Structure?

AI can let you know in less than two minutes.

How?

I’ll show you in today’s Micro Lesson.

Micro Lesson: Guided AI-Generated Elevator Pitch

Suppose your first two ‘Cs’ are:

1. Category: Executive coaching firm.

2. Customer (ICP): First-time CEOs of high-growth tech companies facing rapid team expansion.

Here’s the process for using AI to fill in the gaps and create your pitch.

Step 1: Download the PDF version of my article “028: The One-Sentence Elevator Pitch.”

Grab it here . Or here 👇

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Then click on the download icon on the top right (circled in red) 👇

Step 2: Upload the PDF to your favorite AI platform with this prompt.

I use Claude.Ai (Pro Plan; $20/ mo). But you can use the same prompts in ChatGPT.

Your Prompt:

Copy and Paste this Prompt:

Please analyze the attached document, and I will ask you questions about it.

AI Response:

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Step 3: Generate your initial options.

Your Prompt:

Copy and Paste this Prompt:

I would like you to craft a one-sentence elevator pitch using the 5C structure broken down in the exact format of the 3 examples in the attached article. If I give you the first two "Cs"—category and customer—can you provide me some options for the one-sentence elevator pitch to consider? Here are the first two Cs: 1. Category: [YOUR CATEGORY]; 2. Customer (Ideal Customer Profile): [YOUR ICP].

AI Response:

Step 4: Ask for more options.

Your Prompt:

Copy and Paste this Prompt:

Thank you. Can you provide me with more options to consider?

AI Response:

Step 5: Finalize and test your pitch.

Pick one of the options or mix-and-match snippets from each example to create your pitch.

Then, test it in the wild as soon as possible at a networking event or 1:1 meeting.

Adjust as necessary.

The Next Step

That’s a wrap.

The 5Cs give you a proven structure for introducing yourself in a way that opens doors to new business.

Define your first two ‘Cs’—Category and Customer.

Then, use AI to fill in the gaps and do the rest.

But how and where can you put your pitch to the test to ensure it works consistently?

That’s what we’ll cover in the Systematic Selling Newsletter on Friday, January 17, when we continue our series on the 4-Farmland Matrix (4FM).

I’ll introduce you to the four components of Systematic Prospecting—all of which require a well-honed elevator pitch.

See you then 👊

Sean M. Lyden is the founder and CEO of Systematic Selling, a sales systems and coaching company for growth-minded SMB founders and owners looking to scale their sales (without the chaos).

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